Sunday, October 19, 2008

Qingdao- My First Day by Emmanuel Domingo




The doctor was measuring my blood pressure when he asked me the second time, “Why do you need this physical examination again?”

I hesitated for a while because of the pressure he’s exerting on my right arm then I said, “I need it to go to China”.

For the first time I saw his eyes twinkle when he heard “China”, and, with a faint smile, he said, “Where in China?”

“In Qingdao,” I said. I pronounced it as “Kingdaw” then.

“Where is that?”

I thought that, for a doctor, he asked too many questions and should have made money being a lawyer instead.

“I think it’s the place where they make Tsingtao Beer,” I said, trying hard to sound like traveling half-way across the globe was a common thing for me.

Barely able to hide his smile, he said “I got lost in China when I went there five years ago because some roads have Chinese names and I could not remember how to return to my hotel.” He said that he asked everyone in the street where his hotel was but he could not understand them. He was lucky to have talked with some store owners who knew English who helped him out.

Then he talked about how beautiful and spacious China was and how it recently opened up its economy to the world. Then there, in his swivel chair, he began talking like he was in a trance, more like talking to himself, while re-living some pleasant forgotten past unearthed in his treasure chest of memories. It was obvious he wanted to go back.

For a moment, I thought he forgot I was even there. When I stood up after his long monologue, he suddenly woke up from his euphoria and said, “You need to exercise, you’re gaining weight. Maybe a nice long walk in China will do you good.”

I thought that, by allowing my good doctor to remember some of his happy memories, he would give away this one medical consultation for free. But no. I still paid P150 pesos. Great.

I got all my requirements ready and went to the Chinese embassy in Makati City to process my visa. Getting the visa was a breeze. Only a few standard questions were asked and the nice lady on the other side of Window 3 said I could get it tomorrow. They gave me 60 days.

I was to leave the Philippines on September 21, 2008 and arrive in Qingdao on the same day. The e-ticket sent to me said I would take a connecting flight in Hong Kong, then take a two-hour flight to Qingdao. The whole airplane trip did not take more than six hours.

My foot felt very heavy when I left home on that cold September morning. It would be the longest time that I would be away from my wife, Bhel, and 5-year old daughter, Kate. But I bit my lip and swallowed hard. “This is for them, this is for them,” I said to myself, trying hard to control the tears building up on my eyes.

We already cried the night before, it was an orchestra of sobs and sniffs like your regular Korean television soap opera. But this was not television, this was very real. I only hear about stories like this on tv, about overseas Filipino workers going away to work abroad and not coming back until after two years. But I pulled myself back to reality. “This is only 30 days, what is 30 days anyway?” I said.

My Dad helped me take my baggage to the tricycle which will take me to nearest street corner where I could get a taxi.

There, I took a cab to the airport and was lucky enough not to have been charged extra fare. My baggage was heavy but I know it did not reach 20 kilos. On the plane, I met some Filipinos going abroad to work as sea men, and another wanted to start a business in Bahrain. Talking with them made my flight less cumbersome and it made me forget my own emotional baggage.

I arrived in Hong Kong earlier than usual and I should say that the international airport was spectacular. It looked somewhat like the international airport in Bangkok, Thailand. After waiting for three hours, I took the flight to Qingdao. Looking around the plane, I noticed that almost all the passengers were Chinese. There were some Europeans, Americans, and Africans. I figured I could say absolutely anything using my native language and no one would even care. But I controlled my naughty imagination and kept quiet during the duration of trip.

I arrived in Qingdao after less than two hours. I tried to control my awe and amazement. The airport was huge. I said to myself, “How could a city, which survive on beer-making alone, build an airport this big?” Of course, I did not know much about Qingdao then.

Thereafter, I searched for my baggage in the seemingly endless row of bags and plastic suitcases. It was very easy to find. There in the handle of my suitcase was a purple key chain given by my daughter. She said the night before I left, “Dada, ilagay mo itong key chain sa bag mo palagi ha” (Dada, always put this key chain in your bag, okay?).

I searched for the exit and searched for anyone connected to the Seminar who would take me to the hotel. There in his jeans and light blue gray polo shirt was a man, about three inches taller than I was, holding a card board saying “Seminar on IP System and Protection”. I wasted no moment trying to get his attention.

His back was turned to me when I approached, so apparently, I thought, maybe, he did not know how I looked, or that he was not aware I was a participant.

I gently tapped his back, just like a lost boy looking for his long lost father, and slowly said “Hi, I’m Emmanuel Domingo, from the Philippines.”

With a ready and jolly smile, he introduced himself, “Oh, Mr. Domingo, welcome, I am Mr. You Liming.”

I don’t know what came over me but, from out of nowhere, I immediately felt assured that everything was going to be okay. Mr. You was very kind and courteous and even offered to help me carry my baggage.

I went outside the airport with Mr. You and the atmosphere that greeted me told me that this was going to be an experience I will never forget.

After feeling Qingdao’s chilly, cold afternoon air, the gentle breeze of the wind that whispered in my ear, and the wide, blue, open sky that seemed to stretch till eternity, I quietly looked around the airport and the continuous arrival of bustling people and said to myself, “This is it, finally, I have arrived”.

Friday, October 17, 2008

Seaside Tour By Boat

The author with Silvia from Uruguay, during sea-side tour in Qingdao


We just had a sea-tour around Qingdao by boat (of course it's a boat,what do you expect, hehe). Riding in a boat brings back a lot of childhood memories I had with my father. When I was in elementary school, my Dad used to bring to this place they call "Break water" near the Philippine International Convention Center (PICC). There we would watch fishermen trying to catch as many fish as possible using their fishing poles. Also, we rode on a ferry boat, a small boat that could carry only about fifty people. We would go around Manila Bay for about 45 minutes then go back to the port. It was only, I believe, about 18 pesos per person.

Life was much simpler then. I also remember my parents telling me that they used to take us in the Manila Bay to bathe during early Sunday mornings (though I no longer remember most of it). The thoughts in my head was probably placed there because my mother talked about it often, that many people bathe there in the Manila Bay in the morning. The bay was very clean then, unlike now which is full of grease and oil from passing tankers and boats, including trash which the sewers throw at the sea.

I have always been a sentimental person. But the complexities of life has taken away my precious moments of being alone and just listening to the sound of the wind, the soft rustle of leaves in the trees during mornings, and the simple conversations during long walks in the beach. I have tried to relieve those moments in my mind and it I tell you that it is the most exciting part of my day.

Qingdao has made me hear once again that faint whisper inside me saying that life and time is so important that we should take every opportunity to make our world much better, ourselves more sensitive to the needs of our fellow man and make our relationship with God more meaningful.

My memories here will definitely last forever, and will be with me as I brave the storm once again that this life of ours has to offer.

Xie Xie Qingdao!

Conversations of the Heart

I have always believed that time is so precious that we should make every moment count and do everything like there was no tomorrow. Every day given to us by God is a gift, another chance for us to be a better person, to serve our fellow man as a fellow traveler in this journey through life.
The past weeks I spent here in Qingdao is a testament to that belief. I can say that I have done almost everything that I wanted to do here and things that I did not think I could do. When I think that every day given to me is my last, it takes away all my fears, all my ifs and buts, and I charge outside my door with renewed excitement and courage to face anything life throws at me.
I always imagine myself already in the plane that will take me home to Manila. Doing this makes me ask questions like "What would be my regrets? What are the things that I should have done? What are the places that I should have visited? What should I have said to that special friend who made my stay so memorable? Should I have said this or that? Why did I not take the initiative to say what was really on my mind? Why didn't I take a picture with hmmm, secret! Why didn't I take a swim in Qingdao's longest beach?" (Hey maybe I will swim tomorrow!)
If you think that you have lived life to the fullest, then you should have no regrets. Remember that it is better to have failed in trying what you really wanted to do, than to have succeeded in doing nothing at all and thinking what could have happened.
So keep in mind that today is the only day we've got for tomorrow may never come. If you have something to say or something to do, then remember the slogan of Nike and "Just do it!"
Cheers to a meaningful life and exciting life!

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Emmanuel Doming- The Author

Hi, this is me, Emmanuel Domingo, and I am writing to tell you about my experiences here in Qingdao, China, including some of the wonderful people I met along the way. We were invited as participants to the Seminar on Intellectual Property System and Protection. I am Manager of the Advocacy Dept of the Philippine Chamber of Commerce and Industry. But enough of me, there are more interesting people I would like to tell you about.


No, this is not a scene from the Korean tv soap opera "Endless Love" but I hope it was! One of my favorite sites to see are the trees in the right. My friend Maya (I'll tell you about her later), calls them the "Disciplined Trees" because look, they are all in line, and in a very very straight line!

Everything in China is big and wide and spacious and... you know what I mean. Anyone who goes here in Qingdao will readily notice that what differentiates Qingdao from the others is its weather which is really cold. I heard that the average annual temperature here is about 12-14 degrees celsius.

This blog intends to describe in detail what the author has experienced here in Qingdao and how his stay here has helped him to understand more about China, its people, its history, and its culture.

Memories in Qingdao 3

Flying to China alone was a big challenge since this was only my second experience going overseas. I was told by the IP office in the Philippines that there were two representatives that will represent the Philippines in the Seminar on Intellectual Property System and Protection in Qingdao China. However, when I arrived at Qingdao Airport, I was told by Mr. You Liming that, "There is no one else from your country." Aghast! What! One month in China, alone!
My mind was blowing like a dynamo after learning the latest news but eventually I placed my fate to the plans of God.

Luckily enough, you know, making friends in the seminar was very very easy after all. Everyone was so friendly and amiable and before I knew it, I had more acquaintances than the population of China (okay I'm exaggerating!) We were 66 participants in all from 44 countries. Mr. Aliyu, Class representative, told it correctly that we are like a small United Nations.

Among the participants in the seminar, the only person who approached me on the first day was this lady whose picture appears below. After the opening ceremonies, she walked over and told me that she knew someone from the Philippines with the same first name. I learned that she is Tassanai Lerksantivong working at the Ministry of Commerce of Thailand.

This is her house (joke!).
Tassanai said that we can call her Ped, because she is aware of how long her name is. Tassanai is the biggest fan of dogs in the world! You can look at her camera and I bet you she has more pictures of dogs here in China than people. She is very nice but one thing that she really does not like is arranging her baggage, hehe. Too bad, we had to arrange our baggage almost everyday because of hotel-hopping. Yes, you heard it right people. We were hotel-hopping from one city to another. We all volunteered to help Tassanai in putting all the treasures of gifts she bought in Jimo (right spelling?) inside her baggage.
What made this trip especially great for Tassanai is that her father has relatives here in China. Quite often, she has been mistaken as Chinese which she respectfully explained was common. Tassanai has the kindest heart I know, her concern for the plight of the people here in China especially those who cannot afford the cost of the standard of living is sincere and unparalleled. She is a wonderful lady indeed!

Benedictus Setiawan

The new Emperor of China! We Did NOT borrow the costume for 5 yuan, no we didn't! (why am I so defensive?) This is the genuine cloth of the Emperors who ruled Ancient China which was discovered by archaeologists and historians thousands of years ago in the City of.... well, okay okay enough, we borrowed the costume for 5 yuan, there, satisfied?


Hehe, Benny is my good friend from Indonesia and he works at the Ministry of Law and Human Rights. (This is not their office uniform). He is a very good ping pong and billiards player. He is very serious while playing ping pong so do not talk to him while he is smashing the ball or he will smash your face (just kidding!) Benny is also the biggest shopper among all the participants. He is more fond of shopping than most of the girls, (hmmmm, I wonder why). Until now, we are still guessing how heavy his baggage is (it is full of gifts from shopping of course), we think it is more than 30 pounds, some of us think it is already 40 pounds (good luck in the airport and the excess baggage Benny, hahaha).

Benny is also a world class photographer, he got most of our pictures while in Qingdao. Here he is below in action!

Memories in Qingdao Part 2

I tried posting more pictures in one entry but after four pictures, blogspot refused to accept more. I will be making a better blog once I arrive in the Philippines.

Also, most of these pictures are not chronoligically arranged because I am still in Qingdao while making this blog and we have so much to do in such little time. We have spent more than three weeks here and have seen only, I believe, less than 3 percent of the whole of China. I would like to think that one month is not enough to visit even one big Province such as Shandong.
Yet, the beautiful memories I have hear are enough to fill the pages of Encyclopedia Britannica.


Does Maya love Ice Cream? Just look at her smile and you would know the answer. Maya (Novilia Mayasari in real life) works at the State Secretariat of the Republic of Indonesia. Her name is Novilia because she was born in November. She is not very secretive about her age but I will not write it here for privacy purposes, hehe.

Aside from ice cream, she like cats (I sometimes call her Ms. Garfield), shopping, long conversations, and she can speak fluent Chinese, English, and Bahasa Indonesia. Maya is really very smart. She is our translator especially when we try to bargain for lower prices in the numerous markets here in China.

Maya taught us a very useful Chinese sentence-

"Duo shao qian"- How much is it?,

"Pian yi dian," which means "cheaper", and

"Tai gui le"- Too expensive.

She laughs at me because whenever I say "Duo shao qian" like a true Chinese, to ask for the price of product, I can no longer understand what the store owner will answer. You see, I have not memorized Chinese numbers yet, but I'm improving!

Maya does not like to talk (ooops my Pinnochio nose is growing), she does not like to talk while sleeping (probably). In one full breath, she can talk in Bahasa, then in Chinese, then she will turn to us and courteously translate what she just said. Hehe, it's a hard job but someone's got to do it.

Maya is a true friend indeed, and loves to talk about her family. We are all lucky to have been blessed by her friendship.

Maya on bus number 1, while on tour in Xiamen.